Words for whatyou can feel,but haven't named.

My father, Santosh Kumar

I remember the first time when I confided in my mother that,”Maa, mere liye papa mere bhagwan hai” after she had answered my question, who is god. I listened to…

The Naked Soul…

Love Yourself!

Oh my Lover!

Black and White

To rest, or to go on…

kuch kahi ankahi si……

What’s your Ikigai?

When I met him….

The Invite from a common friend, followed by phone calls came after a year since the separation started. I refrained from attending any get together for the last one year…

And i bid farewell to my lover!

And  I bid farewell to my lover……. I was married at 21 to a rich and flamboyant businessman who lived for himself. I became mother of a girl at 22.…

I am protected!

I am a married woman of 45yrs of age, married young and lived a contented life in the lap of Uttarakhand. I accept the flow and ups and downs of…

Our Billu!

I am the one who have not been so fond of pets and plants though I love to be in greens and woods and I love animals, whole load of…

Passion Vs Compassion!

I am passionate about traveling new places and meeting people from diverse backgrounds which is why I am passionate about my work as a stylist coach and a talk therapist.…

Admire & Inspire

I love to listen. I love to listen to nature, birds, people, words, thoughts, gestures and the silence.  and then I enjoy to communicate, talk, write, travel, all to connect.…

The Oath – We have admired!

  Seeing the cabinet swearing in ceremony on 30th May 2019, was a true delight. The variety of backgrounds of our ministers showed that India has come of age. It…

Threading the thought!

  Just before I was about to retire to bed last night,a thought knocked my mind door. From the  past experiences, I somehow knew that if I welcomed it, I…

My Shiv and Me!

Being born and brought up in the kashmiri home, I somehow always took it for granted that Shiv was mine. I mean I didn’t think or needed to be in…

Patches of green!

  Mine is a Refugee colony in the heart of south Delhi, built n habited in the early 1950s.  Small houses big families large hearts.  I remember we could go…

Voyage of Motherhood

I am a  mother for the last 24 yrs and trust me it has been a journey of  flowers and thorns presented in the same pot. I have been everything…

So is it only ‘me’ or ‘me too’

  I have been a fun-loving stylish girl, who was updated, envied, desired. My father was the revered businessman and mom an admired host, Daughter, and daughter in law, We…

Being Human crosses borders

I am a proud soldier, an Indian by blood and birth. I am proud of my ancestors, my history,  the sacrifices to recreate India. Proud to serve the Indian army.…

Charlie’s Angels

At times I find myself lucky that I am the only child of my parents. No sharing, no bearing, all-inclusive and full of love in full capacity and potential. And…

Swimming at 50

I turned 50 last June and very enthusiastically sat down to write my goals to reach this year. Swimming topped the list. Although, I had tried and drowned a couple…

Reaching ages

Reaching 30/40 or now fifty was never, an issue for me personally. I saw the advertisements, heard friends around, read the precautionary, preventive, preservative articles warning and inducing fear of…

Yes i’m changing!

  A forwarded message- ‘Yes, I am changing’ caught my attention. Over the years while time helped me to evolve, I have developed the skill to pull out the information…

Don’t judge me just because I sin different than you!

  Its been long since I shared my many selves on paper. I have been traveling with friends, family and alone here and there. It has been a self revelation…

When my son spread his wings….

I waited for years when my sons would be ready to spread their wings and take their first flight. I was preparing my first born to wean from the parental…

https://Doosra Pehlu/Social media is my identity!

I am fundamentally very conscious of how I am perceived. I have many many contacts. Some I like, many I don’t . Some are real, some unreal. My display picture…

Ek doctor ki maut

I miss watching late night movies on DD (Doordarshan). For the last few days I’ve been in touch with all the movies I miss. Just yesterday I put up a…

Who am I anyway?

A friend dropped an email, showing all my FB accounts I had created in all these years and actually threw the question at me, which one is you, Vibha? Kindly…

When we open our hearts to guests…..

  Being the only child of my parents I have many rights and few duties too. So, to fulfill my 90 yrs old father’s desire to take him to my…

3 lessons I learnt from my mother’s living and death….

Last July, my mother breathed her last. My mother, who we had started addressing as ‘Nani’ since the time of my first born. In 48yrs I saw her, cuddled her,…

And my video came back to me….

I celebrated my 22nd birthday last March. I am a fun loving girl with dreams. Dreams, just like any other girl of my age, I dream of dancing like Alia…

Muthi me mere Ram….

I am a listener. I enjoy the silence and the many sounds of silence. I am a passionate observer too. I snatch the moments from the rush of speed, I…

The Eagle dropped by….

We usually sleep early and do end up getting early at times. Today was one of those days when my hubby dressed for an early walk wearing a lovely T-shirt…

And I bow down….

  I am the greedy one, greedy to receive blessings, greedy to receive gifts, greedy for love, greedy to be pampered and greedy for the things which make me alive and I thank the one…

Power and Empowerment

POWER AND EMPOWERMENT An interesting matter indeed but addressing a group of well-jobbed girls made me think, more than I am used to- Where exactly the game of empowerment breaks…

About me :)

Hi there… Thanks for stopping by. I am Vibha, Principal Consultant at VR Image Consulting (www.vric.in), an image transformation coach,  personal style consultant and the Founder of Aumtara Foundation –…

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