Insights

Essays on what’s really running your marriage, money, career, and family.

Career & Money Family Relationships Self-Worth

Why You Keep Having the Same Fight With Your Partner

You know the fight. You could script it. Something small — dishes, schedule, who forgot what. Within minutes you're both saying things that have nothing to do with dishes.

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Career & Money

Why You Feel Stuck in Your Career (When You Know You’re Capable)

You're not unqualified. You know that. People around you — less talented, less prepared — move ahead. And something in…

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Family

The Real Reason You Can’t Say No to Your Parents

You know you should set boundaries. You've read about it. Your therapist has told you. Your mother calls with something…

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Career & Money

Why Money Always Feels Like It’s Not Enough

You earn more than you used to. Maybe significantly more. The anxiety is still there. The tightness when a bill…

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Self-Worth

What Most Self-Help Gets Wrong About Confidence

Affirmations. Power poses. Journaling. Positive self-talk. For a moment — a day, a week — it works. Then something happens…

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One insight a week.

Every week, I share one observation about the relationship running underneath your life. The kind you can feel but haven’t named yet.